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Stop letting your relationship become logistics.

The Weekly Relationship Reset

My relationship feels like logistics. Start with a self-guided plan you can read, mark up and return to.

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A clear plan you can keep coming back to.

My relationship feels like logistics.

20-minute weekly reset

Ground rules

Gentle complaint script

A system you can actually try.

Choose one action, make a note of what happens, and adapt the next step to your day.

Start small. Notice what helps. Build from there.

Inside your manual.

Read. Try. Make a note.

  1. 01

    20-minute weekly reset

    A practical part of your self-guided plan.

  2. 02

    Ground rules

    A practical part of your self-guided plan.

  3. 03

    Gentle complaint script

    A practical part of your self-guided plan.

  4. 04

    Appreciation practice

    A practical part of your self-guided plan.

  5. 05

    Mental-load map

    A practical part of your self-guided plan.

  6. 06

    Conflict pause card

    A practical part of your self-guided plan.

  7. 07

    Repair script

    A practical part of your self-guided plan.

  8. 08

    Phone-free attention plan

    A practical part of your self-guided plan.

  9. 09

    Four weekly worksheets

    A practical part of your self-guided plan.

  10. 10

    Before-and-after check

    A practical part of your self-guided plan.

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Made for real life.

Choose a starting point that fits your day.

Keep what helps.

Use your before-and-after notes to decide what to carry forward. Results vary; this is education, not diagnosis or treatment.

This workbook is not a substitute for professional support or help when you feel unsafe.

Andrei Aladin, creator of The 30+ Manual

A coach's eye.
An everyday plan.

Created by Andrei Aladin

Rehabilitation specialist. Strength coach since 2014. Multiple-time world and European champion. Coach to world and European champions.

The aim here is practical: turn everyday habits into a structure you can follow, without making self-improvement your second job.

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What do I receive?

One 36-page PDF: The Weekly Relationship Reset. No videos, coaching or subscription.

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Where should I begin?

Read the ground rules first. Agree on a reasonable time for a 20-minute conversation. Do not use the workbook during a fight.

Start small. Keep what works.

36 practical pages. A plan for real life.

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The Weekly Relationship Reset

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